Hold his gaze.
To Scorpio men, top-notch flirting might as well be a staring contest. He's all about unspoken intensity with his crush, and he's observant. So subtle (but passionate!) flirting will capture his attention. When you're at a party, throw him long glances from across the room. Look away when he looks at you—but let your eyes wander back over a few minutes later. He'll definitely notice! Then, when he comes over to chat, turn up the intensity. Stare deeply into his eyes, like you're fascinated by everything he has to say. For best effects, quickly look down at his mouth about once a minute. If you're worried about your smoldering gaze, practice it in the mirror first! That way, you can feel totally confident while flirting with your favorite Scorpio man.
Initiate intellectual conversations.
To Scorpios, intelligent discussion is a must in relationships. When you’re hanging out with a Scorpio man, strike up an intellectually stimulating chat by asking a thought-provoking question, stating a provocative opinion, or describing something you read recently. You two might be the brightest signs in the zodiac, so to score points with him, bond over your braininess. “Have you ever wondered about how public transportation systems might develop in the next 100 years?” “I feel 100% certain that aliens exist. What do you think?” “I just finished Moby Dick. Can I tell you a bit about what I took from the book?”
Challenge his opinions.
Scorpios are attracted to honesty and authenticity in their partners. To prove you're not just telling him what he wants to hear, offer a gentle rebuttal to one of his opinions. Speak in a kind tone and keep your criticism light—because Scorpio men are sensitive. To ensure you're critiquing his argument and not him, stick to the facts. You're as analytical as it gets, Aquarius, so this won't be a challenge. “You know, I see where you’re coming from, but I actually disagree. I think the author meant to wink at the reader because you see that again in chapter four.” “Interesting. I get that, but I still think social media connects people more than it isolates them. Video chatting is huge for long-distance friendships.” “Can I push back just a little bit? Sports can help kids learn resilience. So providing sports at school could help in the classroom. Don’t you think?”
Create an air of mystery.
Scorpios are famous for loving complex, enigmatic people. Aquarius, “aloof” is your middle name. When chatting with a Scorpio man, reveal very little about yourself to make him obsessed with learning more. Hint at information that you never actually share with him. Turn the conversation back onto him constantly and provide vague responses to his questions. “Oh, that reminds me of…actually, never mind. Have you seen a bathroom? I’m going to go find one. Be right back!” “I hate talking about myself. I’d much rather learn more about you! How’d you get into graphic design? Did you always know that’s what you wanted to do?" “Yes, I did live in Berlin for a year. It was good—a little colder than I’d expected. Anyway, where have you lived in your life so far?”
Surprise him constantly.
To Scorpios, trying to figure out an unpredictable crush is thrilling. If it’s difficult for him to understand what makes you tick, then he’ll be completely obsessed with you—so keep him on his toes. Make sure the very few personal details you share with him paint a shocking, complicated picture. Use your Aquarius-esque knack for spontaneity to keep him on the edge of his seat, too. Share a fact that makes him question how well he knows you: “I almost became an acrobat before I went to grad school. You didn't know that?” Show up at his apartment with snacks, a great playlist, and directions for a random road trip. Invite him to join you in an unusual activity. Surprise him with your interest in a kombucha brewing course or a LARP session in the park.
Tone down your flirtations with other people.
Scorpios can be prone to jealousy, so he'll want all of your attention. Even if you’re not actually seeing each other yet, flirt exclusively with your Scorpio crush at parties and gatherings. Seeing you chat up another person will make a Scorpio man less romantically interested in you, so instead of joking with, touching, and focusing on another potential crush, invest your time in him. Some Aquarians enjoy connecting with others through super energized conversation. You may not see this as flirty behavior, but a Scorpio might. While you’re trying to attract your Scorpio crush, play it safe by playing it cool. When you chat with someone else, stay relaxed, calm, and subdued.
Prove to him that you’re loyal.
Trustworthiness is the single most important quality to a Scorpio. To show him that he can trust you, keep his secrets safe and never talk about him behind his back. If he ends up in some kind of conflict, be on his team. This sign lives for intense, all-consuming relationships, and those require trust to survive. Aquarius women are super loyal, so make that clear to him through your actions. If someone is badgering you for info on your Scorpio crush, refuse them: “I’m not sure if he’d be okay with me sharing that, so I can’t tell you. I’m sorry!” If someone else talks behind his back around you, defend him: “Aw, I don’t think so. He’s intense, yeah, but it’s just because he cares. I like that about him.” If he ends up in a conflict, tell him that you’re on his side: “Hey, I just want you to know that I’ve got your back. I’m team George, 100%!”
Allow him to rely on you.
Scorpios desire a partner who shows up when it really counts. Explain that if he ever needs help, you’ll be there. Then, make good on your promise. Offer him an empathetic ear when he needs to vent, help him out when he’s in a jam, and show up whenever you have plans. Aquarians have huge hearts and are dependable pals, so you shouldn’t have any issue impressing him. When he’s down, validate his emotions to make him feel supported: “Wow, that sounds awful. Yeah, your feelings definitely make sense.” If his car breaks down or he forgets an important document at home, swoop in and save the day. Assume that when the two of you have plans, those plans are important to him. When you’ve made a promise to see him, show up on time.
Speak honestly with him.
Scorpios will immediately cut off anyone who lies to them. Give him your genuine opinions when he asks and never lie to spare his feelings. If you make a mistake and are afraid of facing him, own up to it anyway. With a Scorpio man, lies will always be uncovered eventually—so show him he can trust you to tell the truth, even when it’s hard. Aquarians are honest, sometimes brutally honest. When sharing an opinion he may not like, be gentle. Instead of saying, "Yeah you're right, that coat is ugly," try, “No, I don’t necessarily love that coat. But I really like your red one!” Be upfront with him if you make a mistake: “This is so hard to say, but I stained your favorite sweatshirt. I feel so bad, but I have to be honest with you.”
Show him that you’re independent.
A Scorpio likes their crush to be self-sufficient and self-possessed. You both have a strong sense of self, so this is an area where you two really shine together. Aquarius, you might be the most independent sign in the zodiac, so lean into that. Spend time away from each other. Enjoy your hobbies, handle issues on your own, and work to achieve personal goals. Dedicate a few nights a week to developing your skills. As an Aquarius woman, you probably have tons of fascinating, unique interests. When your dishwasher mysteriously stops working, pull out the manual and fix it yourself. Or, let wikiHow help! Log hours every week doing things that will bring you closer to your goals. Volunteer or write chapters for your sci-fi novel.
Bring on the passion in your relationship.
Scorpios crave intensity and emotional depth in all of their relationships. To make your Scorpio man completely obsessed with you, focus on creating as much passion as possible. As an Aquarius woman, you might prefer that your relationships lean more cerebral than emotional. To meet him in the middle and totally attract him, intentionally create passionate moments in your relationship. When an affectionate thought pops into your head, write it down. Give him your list at the end of each week. “I’m glad Yusuf is here with me. I love his laugh…” Use your spontaneous nature to help drum up some passion. Decide suddenly to whisk him away for a weekend trip. He’ll love all the excitement! Avoid leaving him hanging. When he mentions how much he cares about you, make a habit of returning the favor: "Thanks for saying that. I love you, too."
Offer him patience and understanding.
Scorpios may struggle with constant negative emotions, like anger. Because they're so sensitive, Scorpios may lash out or get critical at times. Aquarius, use your natural levelheadedness to take this behavior in stride. Don't hold grudges, forgive him when you can, and when he apologizes, show understanding. As an Aquarius woman, you probably already know how to set and maintain boundaries. With a Scorpio man, put even more focus on this practice. Remember that any relationship you’re in should add to your life. Though forgiveness is an amazing thing, make sure the relationship still makes you happy, too.
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