How to Seduce a Pisces

Connecting With a Pisces

Talk about your dreams and fantasies. Pisces are thought to be idealistic dreamers and will likely be willing to get deep into personal conversation with you. Talk about future plans and idealistic goals, regardless of how unrealistic or grand they are.

Explore your spiritual side. If your love interest is a typical Pisces, they will likely be very interested in the spiritual, mystical, and otherworldly. If you are interested in spirituality, philosophy, and religion, you will likely have a lot to discuss. Again, a Pisces won't shy from very personal and deep conversation, so think about your own spirituality so that you feel comfortable talking about it in a conversation. Be careful talking about spiritual concerns too soon. If this individual is not particularly spiritual (regardless of their sign), then this may be uncomfortable or off-putting. Better to follow conventionally appropriate conversation topics when in doubt.

Share musical tastes. Pisces are artistic in general, but they may be particularly interested in music. Talk about what kind of music you like and ask what your Pisces is into. Offer to make the person a mix of music they may not have heard before, or ask if they want to hang out and listen to records (this may appeal to the hippie-ish nature of a typical Pisces).

Show compassion. Pisces are gentle, sensitive, and kind, and they tend to look for a compassionate and sensitive partner. Someone who is insensitive, harsh, aggressive, or manipulative is likely not a good match for a classic Pisces. You will pique the interest of a Pisces if you are involved in social causes, volunteer, and show compassion for animals, your fellow man, and the earth. If you're someone who is mostly focused on yourself and your own well-being, that's fine, but you may not be a great match for a Pisces.

Going Out with a Pisces

Find out what your Pisces really likes. Before you assume the Pisces will want to go to a three-day music festival based only on the person's sign, ask the person some questions about what they really enjoy. This will help ensure you both enjoy yourselves. If you want to take the person to a museum, for instance, ask if there's a museum they particularly enjoy or have wanted to visit. Though a classic Pisces might want to spend hours at the art museum, another Pisces might prefer to check out the natural history museum — or they may no be into museums at all! Do a little digging to learn more about the person and their interests before you make assumptions about what they like.

Express yourself through your clothes. Pisces are considered a very artistic sign, so feel free to express yourself through your clothing choices. Pisces are very accepting, so dress in whatever makes you feel comfortable. A classic Pisces might have a flowy, vintage vibe, but don't feel you need to change your own style or match this. Being authentic and true to yourself is more important to a Pisces than how you dress. As a water sign, a Pisces may be drawn to blues, violets, and greens. If your clothes have a story attached to them (the skirt you're wearing belonged to your mother and she wore it to Woodstock, for instance), it’ll make for good conversation if there’s a lull in the seduction process.

Invite them to a concert. Because a typical Pisces will likely be very into music, live music may be the perfect date. Find out what type of music the person likes, then buy tickets to a concert. If your Pisces loves Motown, see if there's a bar or club that has a special Motown night and take them out dancing. When you dance together, you’ll have a chance to engage each other physically and emotionally. Try to feel the tempo of the music, and really move with the person's body and the beat. Doing this will ensure that you will connect with one another on a higher level. If live music isn't your thing, try inviting the Pisces over to listen to music. Or put on a favorite album while you are hanging out and ask the person to dance with you.

Go to a museum. If your Pisces fits the bill of an artistic dreamer, they will likely be thrilled to join you at an art museum. See if there are any interesting exhibitions featuring artists or styles that the person might enjoy. If you're not really into art, that's okay and you don't have to force it, but this may be an opportunity for you to broaden your interests a little. Other possible dates that would interest a classic Pisces might include tickets to the ballet, going to see an arthouse film, a poetry reading, or a gallery opening.

Plan something romantic and off the beaten path. Use your imagination and creativity. Continue to appeal to your Pisces' artistic nature by planning an unusual, romantic date, like taking a pottery class together. After the class, take your Pisces to a rooftop picnic you've planned, complete with candles, blankets, wine, and rich foods. Or take turns painting each other's portraits and then go out for an intimate meal at a tiny bistro.

Romancing a Pisces

Look for clues about what makes the person feel good. While spending time getting to know and date the Pisces, watch for clues about what seems to make your date feel cared for, valued, loved, beautiful, appreciated, etc. Did your date light up when you complimented their sense of humor? Or when you held their hand or gave them a little memento of your first date? What made your date laugh? What made your date smile? Some people may love receiving compliments, while they may make other people squirm. Keep that in mind while considering advice about a typical Pisces — if the person doesn't appear to share the Pisces trait of loving compliments or romance, then find other ways to make that person feel special.

Be complimentary. A sensitive, caring Pisces will likely be very receptive to compliments. Make sure they come from the heart, and tell the person what you really appreciate about them. Pull your Pisces close and whisper in their ear, letting them know just how amazing you think they are. Pisces are intuitive, so they will likely know if you are being insincere. Don't say nice things just to try to manipulate or seduce the person — be honest and real. Joanna Martine Woolfolk Joanna Martine Woolfolk, Astrologer Pisces have emotional depth beyond their zodiac sign. To seduce them requires connecting on a soulful level, not just physical. They crave authenticity and dreamy intuition—approach with open-heartedness, not mere seduction. Find a true understanding of their sea of dreams.

Make a romantic gesture. A typical Pisces will go for sincere, romantic gestures. Think candles, wine, chocolates, flowers, and poetry. Write a song or poem for the person, draw their portrait, pick a bouquet of the person's favorite flowers — the price tag of these things shouldn't matter; rather, you want to concentrate on the sentiment behind them. Reciting a line from a famous poem at the appropriate time is another way to impress a Pisces. Or buy her a book of romantic poems If you aren’t the artistic or romantic type, try reading write a love poem, write a love song, or be romantic. This doesn't mean you have to change your personality if you're not a romantic person, but if your love interest responds to romance, it will help show that person how much you mean to them.

Talk about your romantic fantasies. Ask your Pisces about their fantasies in the bedroom. A sensual, dreamy Pisces might respond very well to role playing — ask if this is something they might like. A classic Pisces will also likely prefer for you to take charge — but it's very important you don't make assumptions here. Communicate clearly about what turns you on and what your partner wants sexually. A Pisces may be very sexually adventurous and find it very appealing if you put imagination into lovemaking. But it's important you have their consent before trying something new. Some role play ideas include dressing up like a French maid, nun, construction worker, or something similarly subdued, but sexy. Pisces may be very into foreplay, perhaps even more so than the actual sex. Consider long, steamy make out sessions and taking things slow, really building up to sex. Seduction of a Pisces is not a one date deal. You may have to go on multiple dates until they feel comfortable with getting physical with you.